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...See more My fiancé & I have been together for almost 2 yrs now. We got pregnant after being together for 10mnths, & everything was ok @ first. My fiancé seemed happy but he really wasnt. @ our 6wk appointment we heard our babys heart beat & that same night he told me he wanted an abortion. He told me he couldnt be a dad & he wasnt excited about our baby. He then made it seem like he was losing feelings for me because I wouldnt get an abortion.. But he was really talking to his ex & catching feelings for her.. He ended up leaving me & messed around with her. It was miserable. I was pregnant with his baby & he left me like I was nothing. He slept with his ex & 2 other girls. He bought plan Bs & his ex even had a pregnancy scare. He would constantly tell me he loved & missed me all while he was messing with other girls. He ended up giving me an Std & continued to play with my emotions for 3 months. He told girls that he loved them and he told his ex that shes his dream girl and hed do anything to be with her.. Of course I took him back. Now we have an apartment together & our baby is 2 months. Weve been doing ok for the past 4 months but im so unhappy. I cant let go of the past. Ive caught him being shady here & there & its jus messed up my head so bad. Hes a great dad & I dont want to leave him but im so unhappy. At this point im just going through the motions to make sure hes happy. I love him sm but I dont feel in love w him & I dont want to hurt him. What would you do?:(

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