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At my wits end.
Relationship Stress / by l33twookiee
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 October 1st, 2024
...See more I want to preface things by saying that I love my fiancé with all my heart. When I look at her I envision my future with her. When she’s at her best, she’s amazing. We’ve been together for 3 years and engaged for almost 1 now. Lately though, her trust issues are pushing me to my limit. I’ve been sympathetic to the fact she’s been hurt in the past. I support her in her mental health journey the best I can. It’s become almost daily that she is going through my phone or computer looking for some sort of “proof” that I’m cheating on her. Her most recent stunt with this though was attempting a loyalty check on me by texting me from a texting app. I just don’t know how much more of this I can take. I love her, if I break up with her I know it’s going to set me back in my own mental health journey. At the same time though, I can feel myself being broken down with each and every accusation. I just don’t know if I can handle being under a microscope constantly. Changing passcodes and passwords would result in an argument, I gave a compromise of keeping my phone location on so she can see where I'm at anytime she likes…I just don’t know what to do…any advice would be appreciated.
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