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...See more 10 days ago my fiancé told me that he cannot get over my mistake I made two years ago (there was a 3 month period where I texted inappropriately including some pictures, nothing physical occurred but yes I know it is still cheating and my fault). He told me back then he wanted to work through but instead threw himself into volunteer work and pulled further and further away. This September we talked and he said he would try to put effort in. October was amazing, I hadn't felt that connected to him in a long time. When I asked him if he felt it too he said yes, he was feeling much better / positive about us. Then Friday I could tell something was off and I asked if he was okay and he said no that he felt the same as he did in September and we needed to be done and talk about selling the house. But he says he still loves me and cares about me and doesn't think I'm a bad person... but that he thinks about this mess 2 years ago every day. I'm so confused and absolutely gutted. I'm talking to my therapist but still just having a hard time processing everything. I don't know whether to try and fight for this 6 year relationship or not. I still madly love him. I think we should do counseling but I doubt he will go for it. How do you start seeing a future without someone? How do you not let it crush your self esteem? I'm trying to meditate and exercise but it's very hard and I'm just feeling very lonely as the one person I would tell everything to is now not there.

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