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...See more I met him on line. Shy and reserved. works in a school. divorced. Said his wife was an alcoholic and use to beat him (flag) said he’d been the Amy (potential flag) said he hadn’t had a relationship since he left his wife. he was quite avoidant at times. Flew hit and cold (flag) I use to get this gut feeling something wasn’t right. i had moved in because he lived so far away. Eventually met his kids and parents. started making a life with him. He was often distant but then living again. sex was occasional but I put it down ti his age. (52) and maybe low testirone. Triggers- little things would happen. He’s be quiet. Ignore me. Always on his phone. one minute he was loving and the next cold. i checked his phone. i could never be prepared for what I’d find. he was on every hook up site for casual anonymous sex. dogging. Swinging. Casual dating. His friends were all swingers. There was a conversation with his best mate arranging to send his wife to him for sex. They were swingers. I’d met these people. I’d no idea. this shy reserved man was a sexual deviant. Meeting strangers, married women, in hotels and his camper van for sex. suddenly his late gone from work all made sense. His van breaking down on a dark country road in a dark car park and now I have confirmed it’s a dogging car park. His reaction when i put this all to him …. the evidence laid out in front of him …his reply ‘you’ve got nothing on me’ no remorse. No excuses. No explanation. I packed and left. The whole relationship was a lie. i was chosen to be at home while he continued his sorted life. if I’d not checked I’d still be there.

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