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lightLand121
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Need advice on what to do next
Relationship Stress / by lightLand121
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 May 25th, 2021
...See more My boyfriend and I had dates for 8 months, talked about a future made plans and had a very meaningful relationship. This past month he felt very distant from me and I kept asking for reassurance which he granted, however I would pick fights over small things. He had made plans with me and cancelled to see his friends and we fought and after almost 2 weeks of not seeing him I told him I reached a breaking point. I love him and never wanted to breakup but as soon as I said that he decided to breakup with me. When we were together we were very connected and happy but through just texting communication became hard and him not seeing me made it harder. I feel as though it’s my fault we broke things off and he won’t even speak to me now. I tried to explain I could change and be more accepting of us not seeing each other but he told me I wouldn’t. I just need advice on what to do. Is it worth getting him back when I think my feelings were valid? Or should I let him go. Some of the other things we fought about were him not introducing me to his parents, and a close friendship he had with a girl I believed had feelings for him. Other then those we never fought but everytime we did or I brought up a issue after we talked I felt as if, it was my fault. Did I do something wrong?
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Not sure if I have an ED or not
Eating Disorder Support / by lightLand121
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 May 12th, 2021
...See more Hi everyone! I have a love hate relationship with food and for a few years now I have been counting my calories or restricting what I eat in a day. I will tell myself if I eat something I see as bad like a full sandwich to only eat half and then I end up overeating and eating again that night then making myself throw up. However I’m not sure it’s an ED because I don’t purge everyday. I normally just monitor what I eat because I’m concerned about my body image. I don’t know what to do because my friends keep telling me it’s not healthy but I hate myself when I eat too much or don’t obey the restrictions so I feel like I have to throw up to compensate. Is this an ED or just disordered eating? I don’t know what to do…
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