Need advice on what to do next
My boyfriend and I had dates for 8 months, talked about a future made plans and had a very meaningful relationship. This past month he felt very distant from me and I kept asking for reassurance which he granted, however I would pick fights over small things. He had made plans with me and cancelled to see his friends and we fought and after almost 2 weeks of not seeing him I told him I reached a breaking point. I love him and never wanted to breakup but as soon as I said that he decided to breakup with me. When we were together we were very connected and happy but through just texting communication became hard and him not seeing me made it harder. I feel as though it’s my fault we broke things off and he won’t even speak to me now. I tried to explain I could change and be more accepting of us not seeing each other but he told me I wouldn’t. I just need advice on what to do. Is it worth getting him back when I think my feelings were valid? Or should I let him go. Some of the other things we fought about were him not introducing me to his parents, and a close friendship he had with a girl I believed had feelings for him. Other then those we never fought but everytime we did or I brought up a issue after we talked I felt as if, it was my fault. Did I do something wrong?
It's okay to fight and argue sometimes. Everyone loves differently and that's fine. Maybe his parents are strict or there are other reasons for him to not introduce you. The fights over small things might come from you being frustrated about the whole situation. It's important to find a compromise, like seeing you at least once a week. I would be sad as well if my partner would cancel our plans and go out with friends instead. Rethink if you feel like he wants this relationship to work or not. From my experience jealousy is not attractive, trust is the key in a relationship as well as communication. I hope I could help you.