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Women's Issues / by limeMango730
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 July 30th
...See more Hello everyone, Im new here and would love an outside perspective. Everyone I know is a mutual friend of ours or just knows him in general. I’ve known my husband for over 20 years. Been together for 16 years and married nearly 12 years. There was a time where we broke up for a year but ended up getting back together and ultimately getting married and having 3 beautiful kids. Im a stay at home mom btw. I’m just curious and I’m being so serious. Do husbands actually help with the kids in all aspects and household duties? Apart from that women who have been in relationships for a while, do you feel like your husbands are genuinely into/interested in you? I ask because I’m legitimately on the brink of losing it and considering divorce. I love him very much but I feel so alone. Sure he’s there financially, but the way he sees it is if he paid for it he did all he needed to do. A summary of his words IDK….I feel like I’m in a friends with benefits situation and I’m exhausted! We sleep in separate rooms btw…It’s been like that since my youngest was born because he couldn’t be bothered by crying because he had to get up in the morning for work. (My youngest is 2yo)He only seems interested when he wants sex and leaves me breadcrumbs lead up to it… Idk I’m at a loss emotionally/mentally and I can see it taking a toll on how I react to my kids. Idk I just need perspective from others because I’m constantly analyzing and I feel like I’m going to go crazy! I’ve had conversations with him about how I feel and he always takes offense and then shuts down, gives me the silent treatment and acts like I don’t matter or he never knew me. So I stopped bringing it up because it’s the same cycle over and over again. I just wanted to feel like he truly wanted me and tbh I feel like a single married woman. 
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