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...See more Ok so my wife and I have been together for almost 15 years and married for 7. This past year my wife went through cancer and my dad was murdered so to say it’s been crazy on top of covid is an understatement. Sex has been meh. A lot due to cancer treatments and stress. I’m fully ok with it being slow in the bed with life going on and I do t pressure my wife for sex. I do make sure to slap her ass and in my way show her I’m attracted to her. So we went on vacation and she added my work partner on snap chat. And we had all spoken over them phone while I drove around at work so it was kinda ok for her to add him. 3 days later she sent out an attractive clean photo to friends on snap chat. He replied back sexy. And some words were exchanged and they ended up sexting. Now we have a strong faith and this goes against anything we believe in. I told her no flirting when she asked if it was ok if she talked to him. And she betrayed my trust. Then deleted the messages so I couldn’t see them. My work partner is in a poly relationship with his wife. So it does t mean the same to him as it does my wife and I. I know my wife’s heart. And they don’t communicate after that day. Sooo I can’t get the anxiety of what if out of my head. I ride with my partner at work every day and wonder oh is that message from my wife. Even tho I know it’s not. But it’s like a constant reminder and instant anxiety as soon as I get to work every day.

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