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littleWriter3059
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Relationship Stress / by littleWriter3059
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 April 15th, 2025
...See more I need some advice and encouragement. I left my relationship of 3 years today. We were homeless in a hotel for the last 4 months. Today we got into an argument and I left. I am still at hotel but in another room on another floor. My daughter who is 17 is with me. He was not always nice to her. I have no where to stay but I don’t want to go back to that relationship. It was toxic and bad for my mental health. I am 46 and scared and feel stupid. I do not understand why I miss him and he was not always the nicest person and made me feel less than woman and lower than dirt. In a text message today he told me that I was the worst woman and mom. 
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Confused and tired
Relationship Stress / by littleWriter3059
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 March 27th, 2025
...See more Hello everyone  I am new to this. I have no where else to vent and get advice. I have been in my current relationship off and on for 3 years. I am confused and tired. I sometimes feel like it’s me that is the problem because of my mental health issues. Some days he can be sweet and kind and then it is arguing and putting me down. He has mood swings that are hard for me to deal with. I never know how he is going to act. I am constantly worried and walking on Egg shells. When I think I am doing what I think he wants it is not good enough and I end up crying in bathroom, panic attack. It is now starting to affect my physical health as well as my mental health. My blood pressure has been very high the past few days. I missed work and rested while I could. While I was resting one night because when I moved I felt worse and dizzy, he woke me up to fix dinner because he had a headache. I forced myself to get up and cook while he laid down and scrolled through his phone. I also have a 17 year old special needs daughter that he does not understand and makes her upset. We are living in a hotel right now because I do not make enough money to help him pay rent and bills. We lost our apartment in January. I apologize for long post and that my adhd brain has thoughts not in order. I just need safe space to talk and feel heard.
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Struggling and confused
Relationship Stress / by littleWriter3059
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 March 13th, 2025
...See more Hello I am new to this community. I struggle daily with anxiety and fear that my relationship is going to end and me and my daughter will be out on the street. I have been with my boyfriend off and on for over 3 years. He makes me feel bad and unworthy of love. I am constantly being compared to other women. He tells me I need to change because he doesn’t deserve this. I do everything that I can to make him happy and it is never enough. I struggle with adhd, anxiety and depression and he feels that none of it is real and that my life and attention should revolve around him. I have no friends and no support. I would love and appreciate some suggestions on how to cope of things I can do. 
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New and frustrated
ADHD Support / by littleWriter3059
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 March 23rd, 2025
...See more Hello i I am new here and looking for connections and advice or suggestions that help with RSD, and how to explain ADHD to someone who does not have ADHD. I am in a relationship and when I try and explain I just end up more upset and frustrated. I do not have a support system. I appreciate any suggestions or help.
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