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lonelygirl077
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I feel sad and lonely a lot
Depression Support / by lonelygirl077
Last post
 August 26th, 2022
...See more Hi! Not sure where to begin, i'm 26, and i do feel very sad and lonely sometimes. People say "Everyone has those kind of days." But i think it goes deeper? Last week i was so down, i felt so useless und unworthy of love. I couldn't sleep that night because i had to cry and couldn't stop. I do date a guy (my first relationship ever), and it seems to go downhill honestly. Which just adds to my bad mood. Sure, i could go to my friends and ask them to do something. But the thing is that it feels so exhausting to have human interactions sometimes. I love my friends, but i sort of have been "ignoring" their messages for days. Which makes me a bery bad friend. Sometimes i talk to people online, mostly guys, and i notice that i get attached to them really fast. But talking to people online seems much more comfortable for me. Yet i get jealous of people who post all those fun trips with their partners or friends on social media. Since i had an IRL Interaction with a guy i crave that true love and affection. But 99% of the time i don't feel worthy of it. And i think i'm just too complicated. I have social anxiety (it was diagnosed when i was around 13) and i am not sure if i do have depression? I don't want to see a therapist and REALLY confirm it. My brother has Depressions and i can't be the second child to have it, i can't do that to my parents. And sorry if this is all over the place, just a lot of thoughts running through my mind right now. I would just like to get an outside perspective on this i guess?
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Why am i so complicated?
Relationship Stress / by lonelygirl077
Last post
 August 27th, 2022
...See more So i'm sorta new here, so i apologize if i make any mistakes here. Well where do i start. I'm 26 years old, and started talking to a guy one month ago. He sent me a message on facebook and we clicked pretty well from the first moment. We talked a lot on a daily basis, including voice notes. A few days later we facetimed for the first time. He wanted to meet but i wasn't ready, as this was pretty much the first time i talked to a guy this much. Eventually we met around 2 weeks ago for the first time. It was really nice, i felt save and comfortable with him. 3 Days after that we met again at his place. He cooked for us, and certain things happened when i stayed over. Two days after he seemed a bit weird, so i asked him whats wrong. And he told me he doesn't fall in love with me as fast as he'd hoped. It has nothing to do with me apparently but he needs more time. So i try to give him that, and we met again this week, drove around the city in the car and everything was fine and comfortable. He did say i need to be a bit more chill about the situation which i understand. I just always get the feeling that when we text i sort of annoy him, but when we meet it's more relaxed. So i guess my problem right now is that i'm scared of losing him, and my mental health is a but of a mess right now. But i never opened up to anyone, physically and mentally, aside from him. He said he has no intentions in hurting me. But i wonder if i hurt myself by being so much in my head and thoughts about the whole situation? I'm not sure any of this made any sense really. But i had to get it off my chest.
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