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...See more Hi all, New here. Situation is that year over year sex becomes less and less in my marriage. Background: 2 kids, married 9 years, both parents work, wife isn't not home on weekends with kids due to work, miscarriage last year (not planned), wife's father is getting Alzheimer's, wife has always slept longer than most normal people, child still sleeps with mother. Issue: Last year my wife had a miscarriage, pregnancy was not planned at all and we are in or around our 40s. Post miscarriage my wife stopped having sex on a consistent basis and went months before having sex again. Since then sex is pretty much a past memory. I've tried everything to get that spark back but she says she is just overwhelmed with work, her father and life. I work 50 hours a week, start work at 4am every day, cook and clean and pay all the bills in the house and groceries. Where I need help: I'm not naive to the fact that she may or may not be putting excuses in the way. But to have months without anything makes me wonder if it's worth it anymore. I'm not happy and doing all that I'm doing it angers me at this point and I have resentment towards her. Not sure what to do next. I don't have free time because my days off I'm with the kids and I don't have a space to clear my head or find happiness elsewhere.

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