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...See more ok so am i being shitty for wanting to break up with my bf? we’ve been together for a long time and it’s actually been really great the whole time. i just feel like im in a bad place mentally and recently just my relationships in general have been kinda exhausting to maintain. i love him, he’s great it’s just i feel like he deserves better than someone who can’t keep up anymore yk?? i just feel bad for just giving up when things got hard for me bc i know that he’s also not in a good place and i can’t just leave when he’s just as bad as i am mentally yk?? bc ik how he feels and i cant do that to him,,,i just feel like it’s the right person at the wrong time :(( we’re also long distance which doesn’t help,,, as much as i love him i dont want to be wasting my time on someone so far away when i could be with someone right in front of me. it was great at the start but it’s too much for me now and i feel like it’s not working the same way it used to. he deserves someone who can be there for him the way i used to be able to, i’ve just changed personally and i feel like it’s not fair if i stay with them when im losing interest… i just don’t know how to bring it up or ease them into it since i feel like it’s all kind of sudden. idk,, sorry if this is a lil all over or doesn’t make much sense im just kinda ranting,,, but yeah

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