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lyragirl22
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Why am I crying over a jerk?
35 & Over Community / by lyragirl22
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 May 23rd, 2023
...See more I recently started dating someone that I met online. He seemed great at first. I didn't know him long but he seemed like my perfect match. Things went wrong when I asked him what he would like to do for his birthday. He told me that he couldn't see me that weekend because he would be busy doing laundry and chores. I was totally dumbfounded and told him that I would find someone else to spend the weekend with. We didn't speak over the weekend. On Monday, I tried to call. He didn't answer. On Tuesday I called and left a message asking why he didn't want to see me anymore. When he called back, I didn't answer. The next day he called again. I thought I would get an answer or an apology. Instead I got a lecture about ignoring his call. A few days later I got a text asking me if I wanted to "discuss my actions in order to have a relationship with him." I know ignoring his call was rude, but was this really my fault? I don't believe he was really doing laundry all day. My friends say he is just an idiot. But all of my relationships end with some weird misunderstanding. I can't help wondering if I am the problem.
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