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My partner is using meth
Addiction Support / by maryjanis
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 April 26th, 2024
...See more I’m not sure if he’ll be able to quit. I offered to pay for rehab and bought him insurance to help pay for therapy and rehab and he agreed then backed out last minute. He also has gotten syphillis and isn’t taking care of it and has a broken shoulder and not going to the doctor and doesn’t have hot water at his house where he lives with his dad who also uses meth. I offered for him to move in with my several times and he always goes back to his dads and uses meth. He’s failing his community college and doesn’t have a job. It’s all really overwhelming. I am a sober person and do tech work in my own business and I’ve been trying to so hard to help but I’ve decided there is nothing I can do since he also has been emotionally and physically abusive as well. I want to believe he can get better so I hope and pray but I also have just let him not contact me for weeks at a time and I don’t bother reaching out because I don’t want to interfere in his recovery since my help didn’t seem to help.
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