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I broke up with him because he lied about having an operation. And now I have serious trust issues.
Relationship Stress / by midgetgem123
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 September 29th, 2018
...See more Our relationship was amazing, we were so so happy. We had our own flat together. Although, it wasn't perfect. He was diagnosed with cancer in January and lost his job in April. I was emotionally and financially supporting us both. However, we got by and we made each other happy. But...about a month ago (after a lot of digging and questioning) he admitted to lying about a cancer operation. He also admitted to lying about money - he spent a lot of money on shopping and betting. He hid money that he was given by family members and he let my own debt build up. I also found out that he was watching a lot of porn and downloading gay dating apps. This was the breaking point. I had to cut him out of my life completely. I have no idea who I've been living with for the best part of a year and a half. I don't even know if he ever had cancer. I don't know if he cheated on me with another man. I just can't comprehend how someone can treat someone else like that. I suffered so much emotional turmoil over the last year and it was all a lie...it all could've been avoided. I was told so many lies so convincingly... how am I supposed to trust anyone ever again? I even question my family and friends now. I don't believe anyone anymore. I just don't know what to do :(
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