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n0tl1b3rty
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PathStep 50 Compassion hearts81 Forum posts42 Forum upvotes56 Current upvotes56 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2025 Member sinceFebruary 17, 2025
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Relationship Stress / by n0tl1b3rty
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 March 1st, 2025
...See more I'm alone for the first time after almost a year and a half, going through a breakup that was caused due to my own poor behaviors and being inconsiderate. I want to learn how to love myself, to be myself and to become a better person for the future. I need to do this for me and be me, and not so involved with love because I learned it's good to grow and not sit waiting, because she will come back if she wants and won't if she doesn't. Any advice on what to do? Things to try, advice, etc etc??
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General Support / by n0tl1b3rty
Last post
 March 3rd, 2025
...See more I have to present to my class in 10 minutes. It's a small class, but I am still so nervous. The fear of people making fun of me, slipping up or stuttering, or not saying enough is terrifying. I absolutely hate presentations and I wish I could get out of it. Please send support, I will update later, wish me luckð¥²
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Lost
Relationship Stress / by n0tl1b3rty
Last post
 February 21st, 2025
...See more I am feeling very lost. I had been with the girl who I see as my soulmate for a bit longer than a year. We planned and did everything together. She was and is the one for me. However, throughout our whole relationship she has been begging me to change my behaviors. She feels unheard, unloved, like i'm not here with her entirely. She doesn't think I have the ability to change or that I care enough about her. She eventually said she was done, she broke it off and said i'm not going to change so I should go find someone else to hurt. I've been actively trying to get better, but it never shows and i'm unsure of what to do. I've been seeking out advice on this app, reading how other people are feeling and responding to prompts. I've been diving deeper into reflection on my own and taking notes upon it. She told me to leave her alone, and I'm scared she means for good. I feel like I have truly ruined it this time, but I don't want to let go. I want to respect her space, but show her I don't want to move on and let her go. I think I am going to continue using this app and reflecting on my own and hope that she notices my changes, even without talking. But, I'm scared and I don't want anyone else, I just want her. Any advice?
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