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neatField4024
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts27 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes3 Current upvotes3 Age GroupAdult Last activeDecember, 2023 Member sinceJanuary 8, 2022
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Scared of sexual intercourse
Relationship Stress / by neatField4024
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 October 16th, 2023
...See more I have a really big problem and i am ashamed to talk with my therapist about this. I can’t relax during sex, I always think that it will hurt. I tried everything to relieve this thoughts and stress but it is not helping, i just can’t enjoy sex. I don’t know how to help myself. All the time i feel stressed even though i haven’t had that much experience. I am not sexually active for a long time but whenever i try to have sex with my partner is the same. I feel pressure that i am not good at it and also I started to feel anxiety after couple of unsuccessful tries. Now I don’t wanna even have sex because i think i am not good at it.
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Bad sex after losing virginity
Relationship Stress / by neatField4024
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 April 12th, 2022
...See more I have lost my virginity recently and after 5 times of trying to have sex it still hurts. Everyone are telling me that this is normal but i can’t relax i don’t feel pleasure and so do my partner. After a couple of minutes he always stops and tell me that he can’t do this because we weren’t having a proper sex. I feel so much pressure that i am doing something wrong or maybe that i have a health problem. But that is not the case i have even talked with a doctor. i am scared that he will leave me because of this, i don’t want to try anymore because i am scared that it will be always the same. i am so disappointed in myself. I don’t know how to realx enough. I even don’t complain when it hurts a little so i won’t stop him.
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