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How to convince my wife to go to the hospital?
Parenting & Pregnancy / by neatStrawberries2627
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 October 25th, 2022
...See more For this I need all your empathy. Please don't be rude, okay? My wife and me have been together for 15 years and are planning to have a baby. She is 9 months now and suddenly started acting anxious. I sat with her for a small talk. She confessed she doesn't want to go to the hospital for labor because she has a medical phobia...and I can prove that. At hospital she screams, slide to the ground and make a big deal out if anything. I'm embarrased to say...we barely have any medical test done during her pregnany. I know, you may think "how irresponsible !!" And yes it is but...put yourself in my shoes. Seeing your partner squirmimg and crying like you are k her....thats not cool nor easy to handle. I'm a very sensitive man. She prefers to stay on her bed with a few blankets and pillows and give birth there. Honestly... I don't care! It's her most painful moment, she must do what feels better. I don't think that's legal tho...also, what if she starts bleeding? Or the baby struggles? This is a hard decision guys. She never goes to the hospital because she is afraid of needles, pain, bad diagnosis, IVs... Any help? I want the womens of my life to be healthy.
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