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neatmarii4ta
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Stress in relationship
Relationship Stress / by neatmarii4ta
Last post
 March 26th, 2025
...See more Hey guys I haven’t been on here for 4 months and I just feel like I needed to update my relationship status and I need someone to talk to so far my arguments have been less worse but today I decided to snoop around and found heart breaking things about my bf. I ended up comparing to myself to these models in his save and wondering why I don’t look at that. I also sent him a goodnight message and checked on *** and saw he was texting his friends but never responded back to me. I also found out about his smoking addiction which I don’t care about him doing that but it’s just the fact he lied to me about not doing that. It’s just the little things that hurt me and he doesn’t get that. I feel like I’m the one in the relationship that nitpick things but I know it isn’t my fault. I’m just so hurt from all this and I’m like at step one again. I spammed him messages but I didn’t thing much through so hopefully he understands me. I just don’t what to say to him when he wakes up. Thank u for listening.
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Overthinking
Relationship Stress / by neatmarii4ta
Last post
 December 2nd, 2024
...See more Ever since I lost trust in my bf in the summer I continue till this day to overthink. It’s a nonstop thing and I always try to distract myself but it never works. The more I over think and think of the worse that’s the only thing I focus on. The thing is we have fixed things but I don’t feel like my mindset is fixed. I never will blame myself for overthinking though because what ever happened was never my fault. I stayed because I know the spark is still there.He is a good person but just with a bad mistake and I just see him as a bad person with that one mistake. I’ve talked to him about my overthinking and he tells me that I should distract myself or just not to overthink but he just doesn’t get it. He claims that he’s already been through that before but I’m talking about me. I just need need some ways to help myself.
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Forgiveness
Relationship Stress / by neatmarii4ta
Last post
 November 21st, 2024
...See more Hey everyone I am new to 7 cups and I decided this would be my best option to discuss my love life issues and get the support I need. For the past few months my bf has made a mistake that had made me have a whole new perspective of him and changed our relationship completely. I recently am starting to forgive him because I don’t want to see him as a bad person because of mistakes he has done and I know there’s improvement to him and our relationship. Currently it’s really hard just trusting him but I’m learning to forgive him and make sure our relationship can be stronger from mistakes. Its really hard to keep myself not lashing out on him and pick at little things and self sabotaging myself.
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