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...See more I have a traumatized broken husband. He had a hard life. Seen and been through some real messed up stuff. And I don’t know if I get treated the way I do because of it or if he really just doesn’t love me. I’m told I need to change. And I don’t do enough. When I feel like I cater to if not all, most of his needs. His anger is unbearable at times. I’ve never met someone that gets so angry so fast. And it’s gotten bad at times. I’m told the only way to help him not be sad and to make him truly happy is to give him another girl (threesome or girlfriend). He lost an ex to a car accident. It was very graphic and terrible and he saw the whole thing. He says to fill that hole and take away the sadness that is what he needs. Like I’m not enough? He says he’s does everything for me and that I’m a bad wife for not wanting to give him this one thing. Am I really a bad wife? Does my uncomfortableness not matter? I’m told that I’m lucky he is so honest and open with me. That any other man would just go cheat. We have 2 kids. We have known each other since we were seven. We have been together since 2019. After all of that why does he see my so differently. To him (and this is his words) I don’t try. I don’t dress up. I don’t do my makeup. I don’t workout anymore. I don’t try to take care of him. I don’t try to have sex with him at night. I won’t give him a girl. I mentally abuse him. I don’t make him happy. If he feels that way why stay. Why put us both through this. I can’t leave, I don’t know how. He’s my best friend. Yeah I’m sad more days than not now but I do love him. He does have good things about him. I fell in love with him for a reason. It is just all of these negatives are becoming such a hard thing I don’t really know how to feel anymore.

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