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noavocados
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts13 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2023 Member sinceSeptember 13, 2021
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Do I move in with my partner?
Relationship Stress / by noavocados
Last post
 March 23rd, 2023
...See more We met online a couple years ago and met in person a year after meeting online. Since the in person visit a few years ago I have noticed a lot I don’t necessarily want in a life partner. However, there are times they change some behaviors and seems like they’re flexible enough to make a GREAT partner/parent in the future! But there’s not been a long time period where I am sure about our future and now there is some opportunity to move in together and idk how sure I should be in order to move in together
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My BF is so depressing what do I do
Relationship Stress / by noavocados
Last post
 February 8th, 2023
...See more Hello, my boyfriend is just not in a good state. No job, lives alone with a different state with no friends or family, not able to find a job in his field. I am running my own business while also trying to help him apply and find jobs and be one of his only people to confide in. Recently he’s been seeing a counselor so that’s helped me but he makes a lot of unnecessary negative comments about himself. It’s draining to be around and I have gotten to the point of being unsympathetic. I ask him to just not say those comments. If he needs to talk about what’s bothering him, it’s fine even though it’s also draining. But those comments are where I draw the line. He’s asking how he can express his vulnerability without doing/saying anything wrong. How do I handle this?
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I want to be complimented more but that feels bad
Relationship Stress / by noavocados
Last post
 October 29th, 2021
...See more Hello ahm so I try to have a relationship and do things on the basis of “I want this to be done for me so I do it for you.” And I’ve told my partner this. However I don’t feel like I get the same back. I feel like I probably do but it isn’t sticking with me and I feel horrible for feeling like he doesn’t put as much effort or compliment me as much as I want to. Sometimes I ask if he can compliment me a bit more and he “jokes” that he just did! And that’s what he always does!
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