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Relationship Stress / by nomboomboom
Last post
 August 5th, 2023
...See more hi guys so 2 days ago i confronted my friends about me feeling left out in a gc with all 3 of us (myself included) and they lowkey ganged up on me saying that i shouldnt expect them to go always come to me and that i come to them that i understand but then they started to say that i changed and that i was never like this last year and that they never understood why im suddenly like this and i wanted to tell them that i always left lowkey left out because they were a duo for like 2 years and i also wanted to say that they didnt invite me to disney like im fine with that like i get that but the thing was one of the girls used my name because she knew she had a higher chance to go if she lied to her mom saying i would go since our moms are friends and my mom told me that and i really dont like that since i didnt get an invite and mf litearlly used my name like tf and i wanted to tell them that but i didnt wanna add enough fuel to the fire (and they started to gaslight me according to my friend but that idk) and after that i lowkey issued an apology and they just liked the message so idk what to do because i wanna lowkey like fix *** but like ya its kinda hard now since the gc is dead and they prob talking bout me in private dms so idk what to do please give me suggestions or advice i would really appreciate it thank you
counting down my days
Relationship Stress / by nomboomboom
Last post
 July 4th, 2023
...See more hey yall its been a while since i logged in and i hope you guys are doing great. i can not sleep cuz a lot of things are in my head right now especially ones concerning my friends and if you guys wanna stick around and read feel free too and if you have any advice please i beg drop anyways: So first problem is that I have a concert tomorrow and the person im going with has *** talked me in the past and now i feel really uncomfortable with her because i have been friends with her for almost 5 years and shes been through a lot during middle school and i stayed by her side and helped her and now shes *** talking behind my back. Currently we have camp for the sport we do and shes been trying to talk to me since I distanced myself away from her... *** shes trying to rebuild the relationship... Second problem is kinda more recent so i have a lunch group lets call them n and s they are also in the same sport but s joined last year while me and n have been doing it for 2 years. For those who are in any performing arts and in sports i can guarantee there is a social hierarchy in any shape or form. Unfortunately im lowkey at the bottom lol and n is at the top while s is climbing up there since they are both in varsity and im in jv and *** we are ok outside of the sport but inside they seem to ignore me because they are closer to the varsity people while im with the jv people. all the jv friends i made left the sport so i dont really have any friends and n and s just leave me lowkey. Like they are always together but i didnt really mind it since it always happens outside the sport like in a trio there is always a duo. an example is one year s wanted to surprise n for her b day but when we appeared to surprise her door, n was telling s how she thought it was weird when s rejected her invitation to hang just the 2 of them... anyways back to the story! anyways in camp i been kinda lonely and wouldnt even try to talk to them because even if i did they wouldnt hang out with me since they have better people to hang out with. anyways my mom and n's mom are really close and n's mom recently asked me if i was going to disney because n said i was going. I knew n, s, and 2 other people are going to disney together since s told me but they never invited me. I felt kinda hurt since 1. they never invited me 2. n used my name since she knew her mom would let her buy the ticket if she told her mom i was gonna go with s as well. the first reason isnt that much of a big deal but the second reason is because last year our mutual friend got in trouble by her parents and blamed it on me since her parents dont know me and i told them that i wasnt fond with people using my name to get away with ***. (the mutual friend i was ok with it since ik her situation at home isnt that great and she told me herself and felt guilty about it but i just told her to not do it again in the future.) Ya idk what do because during the season i really have no one and the last 2 weeks of camp we have to stay for 8 hours so idk who to eat lunch with....... anyways ya.........those who made it this far that would like to give suggestions please do. i hope you guys have a good day and dont forget to hydrate! thank you
friendship is not magic
Relationship Stress / by nomboomboom
Last post
 February 7th, 2023
...See more I have a friend but I don't know if we are friends anymore because of his actions. He ghosted me during break and lowkey replaced me with someone else. An example, I got him a xmas gift because he was my friend and he knew that I was going to go give him something, but in the end, he did not give me anything. Honestly, I don't really care until his friend told me that he got all his friends one and even the person he hated one but not me. like bruh I really don't know what I am to him because he even got the person he hated a gift but not me like I know I sound pretty cocky right now but wow. Another example is that we usually play games with each other and sometimes with our other friend, but all of a sudden they stopped inviting me to games and they just play with each other and it hurts. If we do play together I get left out. I know it sounds like I am listing all the bad things he has done but I know he is a good person and sometimes I feel like I am overthinking but with all these events there is no way that I am just overthinking. Now I don't know what to do because I want to drop him but I literally can not because it's hard and I lowkey miss him LMAO...... anyways if you read through this thank you if you have any suggestions or advice or commentary or anything please write something
help!!!
Friendship Support / by nomboomboom
Last post
 March 5th, 2023
...See more To be honest, I do not know what to do anymore. This person let's call them mushroom. Me and mushroom met this in 2022 and we had a pretty great start. We were lowkey always together and we were just there for each other texting all the time and playing games all the time. But all of a sudden when I went on vacation for break it slowly went downhill. (Lowkey went downhill during finals week but wtv) Usually, they wouldn't text me for a few days but then strike up a conversation in the same week. But that time they didn't text me at all and were super dry when I tried to text them. I would try and like engage in a conversation but they would always reply LOL or like ok. Anyways, when school started again I thought it was weird that they would start talking to me because they literally had not texted me the whole time. The same week mushroom, my other friend (let's call them duck), and I decided to play games when we got home. Well, it did not work well because I got left out all the time I tried to talk but they would just cut me off and continue off in their world. That made me kind of sad and I gave them another chance the next week but the same thing still happened and after that, they just ditched me to play with themselves. (I think I got replaced LMAO) Well fast forward, I try to keep my distance between me and mushroom and now they would try and text me but in real life, they would leave me out. Duck, mushroom, and I all have the same math class together and duck's next class is usually far so they would go first and mushroom and I would walk to class together. Well, now duck and mushroom just walk together leaving me out so now I just walk alone to class. I honestly do not know what to do anymore, but anyways congratulations on making it this far with this paragraph LMAO. I hope whoever is reading this is having a good day <3
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