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What do I tell her, and how do I decide?
Relationship Stress / by oakeyy
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 May 24th, 2021
...See more I have been planning on moving out with my girlfriend for the past 4 years, but as we get closer and closer to when we actually can, I'm not so sure anymore. She doesn't show her affection for me often, and the topic of moving is centered around her wants/needs. She (unknowingly?) dismisses my feelings and thoughts when I try to express them. The thing is, I don't even know what I want. How do I tell her that I want to be heard when I'm not even speaking? How do I decide what to do long-term when I've been relying on her this whole time? It might be my mental health, it could be her, or both- but I feel disconnected from her. I don't know what to do.
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