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observant01
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Lost the one…
Relationship Stress / by observant01
Last post
 June 11th
...See more She won’t even answer me now, last message I sent her was “Im genuinely sorry for everything, I still love you, please wish your daughter a happy birthday for me, I’ll miss you guys so much” Im just here crying man I feel so empty so lost. I never cry but for this girl thats all I been doing.. idk how to deal with this.. I’ve tried everything it feels like an it just feels impossible… i really miss her…..
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What am I doing wrong?
Relationship Stress / by observant01
Last post
 June 10th
...See more Ima start from the beginning it’s gonna be abit much so please take the time to read it. I was engaged to this girl, we were pretty happy had our flaws but everyone does? We did everything together. She had lost her job an threatened to kill her self. I stayed an made sure nothing happened cause I genuinely care. She cried I was there. People turned their backs on her I was there. As of recently I did some things I wasn’t proud of Im not tryna make my self seem perfect. I never cheated. I said some things that she has said as well an Im the bad guy? Sunday she screamed at me I need space then went back to her house. I tried my best to apologize an so on. Before I get any further Friday I caught her cheating with a ex. I still chose to forgive that. We had a 2 hour conversation an I thought we made progress. Guess I was wrong. Any way, she goes back home. Won’t answer me won’t do anything. Messages me a couple hours later saying i think im having a miscarriage. My heart broke even more. It was gonna be my first kid. She didn’t comfort me I tried to comfort her. No answer again. Couple hours pass by i try to message her saying “im sorry for everything we went through but I don’t wanna give up” now here comes what I like to call a twist. She calls me, calls off the engagement says Im having a guy stay the night right after having a miscarriage. I feel some kind of hurt cause I genuinely tried to make sure she was ok. Even when no one else would. I should add she does live with her parents an the guy was supposedly staying in the room next to hers. However I feel some level of anxiety an disrespect cause I’ve been nothing but straight to the point. I looked after her daughter as my own I made sure she was always ok. But where did I go wrong? Im trying my hardest to understand. But maybe I just can’t?
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