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oliveClementine9629
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No contact - not because I want to, I need to.
Relationship Stress / by oliveClementine9629
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 July 28th, 2025
...See more So long story short, my SO of 20 years has cheated AGAIN. I’ve kicked him out just like every other time. I want this time to be different. I want to choose me. Obviously I’m not the one that wanted the relationship to end but I can’t do it anymore. For those of you who have went no contact because you needed to not necessarily wanted to, what are your best tips for fighting off the temptation to unblock and make contact. The longest I’ve went so far is 24 hours. I have to do this for me. I have to choose me. He got the last 20 years, I get the next. I desperately need help because I do love him. I never saw myself with anyone else. We’re about to have our first grandbaby and I was so looking forward to watching him with the baby. I didn’t want this so it’s extremely hard. I have no friends and just my mom and kids. I need tips, help a constant distraction. Something because the urge becomes so overwhelming I go into panic attacks. Help please 😥
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