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Only now feeling comfortable later in life lesbian
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by oliveFarm6040
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 January 13th, 2021
...See more Hello gorgeous people! this is my first post and would jut like some feedback, tips, advice and encouraging words. i am 31 and now realise that I like women, I mean looking back I think I've always known. Looking at my best friends rear in school, crushing on my college tutor, fantasies about women. Anyways, growing up I have dated a few men and had a 2 year relationship with the last guy I was with but every time I felt like there was something missing, and I know I only stayed because I felt I had too, 'women should be with men' 'only straight is normal'. Every guy I meet or have met I feel just want me for my body, in now way bigging myself up but I'm pretty and everyone says why am I single? I should have a boyfriend , but that's the thing I don't have a great perception of men maybe because of the way I've been treating but also I jut know I'm not physically attracted to interested in them. Anyway off topic lol..I haven't told anyone I like women although my family make remarks and even a few work colleagues. Im not butch but a little bit of a tomboy and I guess as I've never had a serious 'boyfriend' everyone assumes. Thing is I haven't been with a woman although I would love too, I had a big crush on my lesbian friend but even if she had an incline before she never made out anything. Now I really like this woman, she works near me in a cafe it's weird we've talked a bit when I've gone in there and made lots of eye contact and I get that vibe, but then I know she had a boyfriend back a year ago, don't know her situation now.. but what do you all think? Any sound advise from later in life lesbians? Really want to feel what it's like to be woman, just wanna know there's hope! thank you x
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