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Need to get over this damn break up

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Toxic break up
Relationship Stress / by onlyoreilly
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 June 22nd, 2021
...See more Yo what is up people. Gonna be judged for this but I need help tbh. For the past 10 years me and this girl have been on and off with each other. On in the first few years meant sleeping together and off meant not talking for months. Then as life went on and we went separate ways we never saw each other and on for us then meant random sexting sessions then again no talking for months. We always had such a special bond and always loved each other and was a thing that when one of us messaged the other, we'd always sext - even if in a relationship. We believed we were parted lovers just trying to make a course back to each other. Fast forward to this year and she messaged me only this time she didn't leave after two days. And we kept talking, and kept talking until eventually I find out she's getting married but we're still talking and then we talk about ending up together ourselves. It was the most intense 2 months of my life then this past Friday it ended. Will spare the unnecessary details but now it's all gone. There's a void inside me because I know this 10 year thing is gone. It's so stupid and toxic but I don't know what to do.
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