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My ex gf who I love is cheating on her new bf with me
Relationship Stress / by optimisticFriend2868
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 May 21st, 2021
...See more But she still doesn't want to get back with me and she's justifying that it's not full on sex because it's only fingers and oral on her and also we're not kissing. But like comeon any of the stuff we've been doing if he did the same she'd be rightfully mad. She says she has no reason to break up with him because he's super nice and they never argue. Which is the opposite of me. I hate him because he knew from the beginning that we were trying to work things out and he didn't back off, something I would have done. We basically have a family together, our kids think of each other as step brothers. But honestly I'm not even thinking much about him. I just don't get how she wants me still emotionally and physically (she video calls me just to ask a simple question at least once a day especially if she hasn't heard from me all day). But isn't willing to just dump her bf to give us a chance to mend things.
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