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optimisticPeach2056
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LOW SELF-ESTEEM BECAUSE OF PORNO
Relationship Stress / by optimisticPeach2056
Last post
 June 27th, 2021
...See more Hi. I’m 27 y/o. I’m a working mom and I’m married with 1 child. As they say there’s no perfect marriage, that is true. Throughout my marriage life we experienced bumps on the road. Last night, I used my husband’s phone because mine was still charging, I used his to google something up. I got curious and was carried away (I know I shouldn’t have). I searched for this app on his phone because I already knew that’s where he kept his porno, that’s fine with me—him watching porno, I mean it’s normal for men, right? But what really shocked me is that he paid someone to send him nudes, he really privately messaged this hooker or whatever you call them to send him nudes. I mean, that really hit me. Now I’m questioning my self-esteem, I’m questioning if I am enough for him to desire me, I am questioning my worth as a wife. I know that I am a good mother, there’s no doubt in that, I may not be a perfect mom but I am a good mother. But the real question is, am I a good enough wife?
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Confused wife
Relationship Stress / by optimisticPeach2056
Last post
 March 16th, 2021
...See more Me and my spouse always argue like everyday and it’s very toxic. We have a 1 year old baby. I am a working mom, though my work is home-based, my spouse on the other hand is unemployed. After shift i take care of our child. Though he helps me but i fee like its not enough. I just want him to find a job because truth be told i am toted of working. I just want to take care of my baby. I feel like he’s not supportive of my decision. Idk im just confused. I cant even share my problems with him because he’ll just say im being over dramatic. So yeah im here ranting because i cant share my problems with my spouse. Thats my sad reality.
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