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Relationship Stress / by orangeSky8363
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 May 23rd, 2022
...See more My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married with 2. My last birth was last year Sept. Ever since I gave birth. He is always blaming me when the baby cry, blaming me for everything. Its not my fault that I can't give him a son. He is always on his phone playing games, facebook etc....He doesn't spend must time with my eldest. Even when he is holding the baby, he will be looking at his phone. There was one time my eldest jump on me and I got a scratch on my face bleeding. He didn't even notice. When he look at me, he only see my boobs. It just makes me feel insecure about myself. I would intentionally wear loose clothes so he won't look at my boobs and actually look at my face when he talk to me. we doesn't talk much anymore because whatever I said just makes him angry so I just stop. Just the occasional yes or no simple answer. We had a fight last year when the baby was crying. He said he HELP alot. I want ask him what actually did he help but I don't want to prolong the fight. Husband and wife suppose to help each other, Right? I didn't even say anything every time when I help him. But when I need his help with the baby, he treat as if I OWE him I can't remember when was the last time he actually said he loves me or holding hands. For him. I'm just a way to satisfied his sexual needs. A way for him to release. The only times he touch me is when he wants sex. Sometimes I just need a normal hug and him to tell me I'm doing a good job.
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