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orangeVase1703
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Out of time
Relationship Stress / by orangeVase1703
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 December 15th, 2022
...See more The best way I could describe the situation with my partner is The Weeknd song, Out of Time, word for word. We broke up because we had a toxic situation where I was not giving the best of myself , I let myself go and I was not as supportive as my partner needed. She tore me down with her words and actions after she got pregnant and it turned abusive toward me so I decided to leave rather than having my son see me be abused. The plan was to take a break and date each other again. It didn’t happen that way. A year later , after not clicking we gave each other time and space.. for three months . I realized that I loved her but she said she was seeing other people. The thought terrorized me. I got my things out of our home at last and she asked me to talk for closure. It went well we learned a lot about ourselves but she said it was just too late the spark was gone. She would try to find love again but it was 70/30 not going to work. We played house for a week exchanging I love yous, marriage ideas and baby names there was a lot of back and forth between I love you and I don’t .. in the end I feel things got serious with her new person or she got tired of me trying to win her back and being so sad about our reality.. she has now asked me to leave for good. She said she did it for a whole year she waited for me and I didn’t mind hurting her , so now I have to be strong. She learned to be alone. I have to let her go. I know I probably should but a part of holds on to the hope of the new us getting along so well now. But she said maybe if we give it time in a year or who knows when we will find each other along the way. I am scared and I’m doing it scared but I feel so alone and empty. Please help
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