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passionateDay9792
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Is the friendship lost?
Relationship Stress / by passionateDay9792
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 September 20th, 2025
...See more I have a guy friend who I have been hanging out with for the past year, we have great banter and I really like being with him. We have made out a couple of times but I’ve been the one to remind him that we’re just friends. Well about 2 weeks ago I found out that he’s been having sex with other girls. I don’t know why but at the time I got so incredibly upset and jealous and I made it be known. In the midst of my jealousy I was confused why that was upsetting me that much if I myself had made it clear that we’re just friends. I did some reflecting and I actually realized that I have deeper feelings for him that of a friend. I did send him an apology for getting jealous since it was not in my place to do so since we’re just friends. I also did tell him how I feel about that I like him as more than a friend although I don’t know what that means yet because this is something that I barely realized myself so I don’t know if my feelings are at the point where I would want a relationship with him. He left those messages on seen. I’m so sad thinking that I ruined things between because of the whole mess I made by getting jealous when I shouldn’t have. And also thinking that he doesn’t want to be my friend anymore at the very least. I don’t know what to do to fix things between us
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I told him to block me but that’s not what I wanted
Relationship Stress / by passionateDay9792
Last post
 February 13th, 2025
...See more So l was seeing this guy and I happened to get really annoyed at something he did, and basically I let my frustration get the best of me and told him to leave me alone and basically to block me and he did : (I didn't actually mean it, I was just upset and it slipped out, now I don't know what to do, I want to explain myself because I still want to keep seeing him
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