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me and bf have relationship issues and we both took it far
Relationship Stress / by passnfruits
Last post
 February 23rd
...See more long story short, back in october i found out my boyfriend had downloaded so many ai chat apps, some of them sexual so there were ai sex bots he’d roleplay with. he lied to me for a long while about it until finally confessing and shortly after i confessed i did the same. alarming things he did he said he met someone somewhere online and he would send porn pictures of porn stars to her but that was it and he cut it off not that long into the convo. he also kept female friendships, i saw all the convos pretty much and they’re all clean and platonic. he also told me he joined one dating/anonymous chat app but never spoke to anyone. he swears he never did anything with real people, didn’t send himself in anyway, didn’t flirt or ***. mainly just ai and he had a porn addiction so that kinda affected him for doing stuff like this. he eventually quit and i did too. he swears he’s told me everything and he’s given me every password and other stuff of his. i was also honest about my experience with what ive done. i had done ai and porn but a while ago i was very unsure about my sexuality and was scared i might be lesbian so i started experimenting. a lot of the chats were mainly casual. i think i talked to 3 guys in total in general. um, one person blackmailed me into sending *** and i expressed that w my bf so i wouldn’t say it’s my fault. others i was just leading them on for the fun of it😭 i liked trolling ppl. and i did kinda the same with the women, and i can’t remember if i ever sent photos/videos of myself, especially naked, idk. but it was very rare and i usually shut it down if it got far like that. i was just scared and didn’t know what to do. i feel guilty because my stuff does seem worse and i guess i just wanted to come on here and vent ab it.
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boyfriend of four years has a lust problem and idk what to do
Relationship Stress / by passnfruits
Last post
 December 27th, 2025
...See more yeah. basically in october i went through this phone, more so his previously downloaded apps bc i was curious and i saw that from august 2024 to may 2025 he have been downloading these apps, like character ai apps, with women ai or something, many of these apps seemed to be heavily sexual and such. anyways i confronted him about it and he was pretty much straight up with me and was sorry but he kept reassuring me (and to this day he does) that he didnt engage in any sexu all or romantic convos, says some of these were storytelling games and how he never got off to apps like these yknow, and he kept reassuring me everyday that he never did. he said he stopped in may. which checks out because the last app was downloaded towards the end of may. in november i mentioned to him i wanted him to stop watching porn and he agreed, and so far i haven't found anything so he pretty much stopped i guess. but i keep finding stuff in his web history from the past, like sexy ai chat or ai porn pics or something. but this was way before i confronted or found out so i dunno. but i think the main thing that bothers me is that i went through his disc0rd (he gave me his passwords to every single media he has i guess to help) and saw that in june he and this girl were messaging, and this girl were messaging, but he was i think sending pics of random porn stars to this person but i didn't see any s3xting at all and he still swears he never did anything sexual or romantic with anything so i'm just stuck on what to do.
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