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Cut off without a reason
Relationship Stress / by pastelamy
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October 1st, 2016
...See more I'm a sophomore in high school. I've had a friend, my best friend actually, since the eighth grade. He has been amazing to me. We've done a lot of things together and made great memories that I'll always cherish. My father doesn't allow me to hang around guys, at all, but I tell most of my family anyways about him. He's very funny, and relaxed and sassy- but in a good way. He was my only true friend. Tonight, he messaged me. Recently, his phone broke so we hadn't spoken to each other much besides on Facebook where he could reach through his laptop sometimes. He writes that we haven't seen each other in a while, which is true. I didn't leave my room the entire summer. But that's another story. I didn't tell him what I was going through because I don't like bothering others with my problems. Ironic considering I'm posting about them. He tells me that we're beginning to drift apart to which I deny. We've been friends for a while and we went months without speaking to each other at one point, but we were still as close. Then, he tells me that he hopes I have a good school year. And that I meet new friends. I try to explain that we aren't drifting apart but he won't listen. He says that he doesn't care, that he's done listening, and goodbye. I asked him if he's gonna stop speaking to me and he says for now. I'm so frustrated and so sad. I feel like he's only talking to me when it's convenient for him. I cried, really hard after. I don't know what to do honestly.
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