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Relationship Stress / by peachChestnut4099
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 January 13th, 2020
...See more Hey I'm in need of some advice please So basically at the end of 2018 I started talking to a girl i really liked and eventually after months of talking we decided to start a relationship. She really made me happier then I've ever felt and we both were amazing for each other we both said we were in love daily and how happy we were. This Christmas I was planning on booking a holiday for both of us to go to rome as we both loved and talked about going there but unfortunately just over a month and a half ago her mother was diagnosed with cancer and sadly died very soon after. I have been supportive for her and have tried to be there as much as I can initially she shared all her feelings with me but over Christmas she started pushing me and others away I still tried to be there and support her. After the new year we have barely talked and over the weekend she sent me a text saying she needs some time because she isn't capable of giving to a relationship right now. I told her I will give her space and am still available if she wants to talk about anything. I completely understand she needs space and am willing to give her that. I'm just really scared of losing her as I thought we were both perfect for eachother. Is there anything else i can do for her? Because she is pushing alot of people away and is in a dark place. I will respect her wishes and give her space but it just kills me knowing what she is going through and I cant help Thanks for reading any advice is welcome.
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