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peachjuice00004
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Am I being abused? What do I do.
Relationship Stress / by peachjuice00004
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 October 9th, 2023
...See more last night I went out with my boyfriend and his friends to a club. I was feeling sick that day and expressed that to him. I didn’t want to ruin his night as he is generally introverted and doesn’t like to go out much or socialise, and this was an important event to him. I told him I was feeling sick, but that I didn’t want to ruin the night and that we should go dance downstairs. He looked at me with kind of a disgusted look, and said we should leave. I said I didn’t want to and that we should dance, smiling, and he kept insisting we leave, very annoyed. After a while, I decided to go down to dance in hopes he would follow and lighten up the mood, but when I got there, he found me and asked me why I would make him follow me downstairs. He insisted we leave, and that my attitude was terrible. I went in front of him to get our coats from upstairs, and was upset. I had his house keys in my bag and handed them to him, but he resisted to take them. After some bickering I said firmly “I want to go home, and I will see you tomorrow. Go inside with your friends and have fun”. I walked down the street only to find he was following me, telling me to stop acting like a ***, to stop making a scene (although I was trying everything not to), and to stop making him follow me like a f*cking dog. I repeated over and over I just wanted to go home and that he should go back. We reached a small inside street, and I take out my phone to order a taxi. He grabs my phone from my hands and holds it up high so I could get it. We start to fight again and I keep trying to get my phone back, but he keeps telling me to “come back home” now and I could do whatever I wanted later. He refused to give me my phone back and pushes me away repeatedly, at this point I am crying. People walking back keep staring, it was embarrassing. After some time I wanted to do anything to get away from the situation, and tell him I would tell my parents what he was treating me like, to which he says if you do not come back with me we are done, to which I say we are done. He shoves my phone to my chest and walks off calling me a ***, and that I never did anything for him. I wait outside a bar for a cab alone for 25 min, people who had seen the scene come up to me to ask if they can help, I was totally in shock. He was so agressive with me. I have to go pick up some of my things from his house before work on Monday, how do I handle the situation ? I feel violated. I know he will make me feel like I did something wrong though.
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