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philosophicalPeachy
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Relationship Stress / by philosophicalPeachy
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 May 29th, 2023
...See more Ok so I have been married for 7 years now and I have been with my husband for 8 years. It has been a journey but things have started to change. We recently went on an extended family trip with his family and mine. While on the trip my sister approached me and told me that my husband has been hitting on her and he told her that he has been having fantasies about making out with her. She also claims that while I wasn’t with her one day he said he couldn’t sleep and he came to her room and sat at the edge of her bed trying to talk to her in the middle of the night when she was already in bed sleeping. I wasn’t home with them I was at work. She said that it made her feel very uncomfortable and she doesn’t want to be left alone ever him. When I asked him he flat out denied it and got very angry and said that why is my sister making things up about her. I got them both in the same room and she said the same story and he denied it still. He said he will never talk to her again or be affiliated with her in any way. I believed him considering both of our past relationships with got cheated on. He found his ex in bed with his friend and my ex had an affair for 4 years and I didn’t know but everyone around me knew. So we shared this when we first met. So that was something we said we will never do to each other. But then again why would my sister lie to me. Especially in a vacation. Fast forward to yesterday I am graduating in 2 months and I have 2 different ceremonies I was excited to tell him about the dates and he just flat out said “what’s so special about them? I don’t care about any of them”. I just felt so crushed and I could not believe he did that. There has been a disconnect the last month or 2 I don’t know why just emotionally not really in tune with each other. My question is what do you do in a situation like this? How do you move forward? FYI we have 2 kids under 8 years.
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