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Relationship Stress / by philosophicalTriangle8271
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 January 30th, 2021
...See more My wife and I had been married for almost 6 years. Initially in the relationship she was controlling and challenging to handle at times, very early on one night when I wanted to go for a beer with my brother it caused a big argument and she took her engagement ring off and said she was done. She later changed her mind. This up and down Behaviour carries is on for several years. We had an unplanned child who I love millions. She loves us both deeply. We had marriage councilling and that seemed to help. She had got a new job and seemed happy despite the constant up and down mood. One day it’s transpired she had met up with a male colleague three times to hand over old clothes belonging to our child to his child however it turned out they had been texting, she told me that she liked him and that they had been sending kisses to each other and also talking to each other on a scrabble gaming app also. I asked if I could see the messages to put my mind at rest and she said no. She then told me she had deleted them. The next day I said I needed some space and would stay at my mums for the night. She later called me that day and said she doesn’t want to be with me anymore. I am distraught. She is already after just 4-5 days asking me to sign the flat over to be in her name. She had also gone to view other properties. I’ve told her I love her and want to be with her but she’s told me she doesn’t know if she wants to to. I am mourning. Can anyone help with some advice or support please
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