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I'm really confused and struggling to be okay.
Relationship Stress / by pinkSkies9590
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 May 17th, 2023
...See more Me and my boyfriend it's fairly new of 4 months have been going so well, we've just been away together and had a fab time he said it himself, he always tells me he likes me and I'm pretty etc, last weekend I spent the weekend at his and we had a good time, just relaxed together and had a dinner date it was lovely, we didn't argue or have any bad interactions, he even said how glad he was I'd put up with him for 4 months, I left his pretty happy. He messaged me to check I was home and it was still all fine. The get to Monday he doesn't message me all day this is odd I asked if he was okai? He said he was sorry he was just really busy. Okai that's fine, next day doesn't speak to me again, I leave it thinking he's busy and message him in the morning to which he replies to me late in the evening 2 messages and that's it. The following day I decide I should ask if something going on between us and if I've done something wrong. He said I haven't done anything wrong he's just feeling a little down ATM. I offered my support and love and told him I'd leave him to it. Gets to Saturday and I haven't heard much feeling really sad like something is wrong. So I ask again telling him it's causing me to be anxious about our relationship and upsetting me we are a official couple, he said he's sorry he's been off he's just feels like he needs some space. I asked what has brought this on and he said he doesn't know he just been feeling a little down. I said I understand and I'll give him some space I'm just worried bout him cuz he won't talk to me. He appologise for not talking much and said he knows he's been a bit rude towards me. Next day does talk to me, which ok I said I'd give him space but it's hard. We now on today. I wished him a good day and said I hope he is ok nothing else and he said he hopes I'm ok too. Any idea what's going on? I know it's impossible for stranger to know but I'm going insane I need to talk it out [https://out.bi], i really like him and I know he likes me, we've been going well for the last few months no issues, he tells me how much he likes me, how glad he is we made it to 4 months, how pretty I am how happy he is! It makes no sense! he tells me nothing has gone wrong, I havent done anything when I asked just he needs some space for a little bit he's been feeling a bit down. Could he be overwhelmed with his feelings? Maybe he thinks we see each other too much which I get we all need time to ourselves 🤷 I don't know how to be myself when I feel so down and am being left in the dark with what's going on.. any advice is great. Please don't tell me to just leave him, my mind been there I am thinking about a lot, but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt we are quite new maybe he has mental health issues I am yet to learn.. thanks in advance. Sorry this is long 🙄
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