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pioneeringBlueberry3922
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Relationship Stress / by pioneeringBlueberry3922
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 September 29th, 2022
...See more Me and my now ex girlfriend have been in a relationship for 6 months, although our relationship was long distanced we still made the most of it and we texted and called all the time. we’ve always been fighting on and off for months around one fight / argument a week where we’d just go through moods of anger instead of being mature and talking to eachother. I use to control who she was friends with online due to the fact of me being a massive overthinker and liking her to stat away from people i saw as a threat to my relationship does this make me a bad person? We ended things around 3 days ago after a massive argument broke out due to something small, she said she couldn’t take it anymore and that she hates me and i was nothing but toxic and controlling because i didnt let her have friends , we’ve been talking on and off for the last few days and she keeps saying how she’s happier now and I told her how i’d change and fix my controlling factor but she said no its better if we breakup I feel terrible right now like I have the weight of the world on my shoulders, I’m not eating I have no appetite all i can think about is her, I feel like I want to d1e but at the same time I know i don’t have the strength to actually end my life and i know i wont actually end it. She called me a terrible person for constantly controlling her and said i manipulated her , Am i a bad person? can anyone tell me how i can change and what to do please
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