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...See more I started college during the pandemic which made it hard to make friends. My best friend from high school is going to the same college as me, but was in a different dorm, so i started hanging out with her and we made a friend pagroup together. By the second semester the friend group had split in half tand I was no longer friends with my high school best friend. I was ok with this because she was in the wrong and it took me that long to realize what a toxic friendship it was. I also still had the remaining people in the friend group to hang out with, so i wasn't lonely. Part way through the spring semester everyone stopped hanging out together and I had no idea why. I wasn't in the same dorm as any of them and all my classes were online so i couldn't ask them in person, and i kept getting told that no one was doing anything over text. I tried making other friends but i never made any other close friends. I found out at the end of the spring semester that the 2 girls who had been telling me no one was hanging out had left the friend group, and the rest of the group fell apart. I spent most of spring semester thinking i had done something wrong and not knowing why they weren't talking to me. Now I'm a sophomore and they want to be friends again, but dislike all the old members of our friend group. Everyone else has moved on and made new friends, but i was having trouble so i decided to start hanging out with them again, but i haven't seem them all week, and idk if I'm overreacting and that they were simply busy with homework or if they're going back to what they did last year and I'm going to get kicked out for no reason. I hate feeling clingy and needy but after everything that happened last year it stresses me out when we don't hang out and i end up anxious and lonely.

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