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He Keeps Coming back
Relationship Stress / by plumBanana1122
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 March 4th, 2024
...See more 31(f) the guy is 28 I’m a successful entrepreneur with a roommate guy is a successful entrepreneur independent with own house own car. It’s been about a year since we’ve known each other now. I met this guy on a dating app around the same time last year. when we met, we went on dates and spent a lot of time together. There was a time when dating where he made me feel uncomfortable because the communication & dates became less frequent. I blocked him and never looked back. Then I deleted the dating app. Fast forward 2-3 months, I re-downloaded the dating app. He found me and asked to come back in my life. I allowed him back in and same thing , nothing changed. He asked me on a date. We went on the date. Fast forward. He never asked me to be his gf or anything. I was confused on where we were headed. Soooo… I blocked him again. I deleted dating app. Re-downloaded dating app. And then boom, there he is again. Asking to be in my life. I let him back in. We went on dates hung out, i slept with him (which I regret). He told me I am his confidant. Everytime I mention a relationship he mentions how he is super busy running three business @ he needs time to gauge things. He said that if I block him all of the time.. whose to say I wouldn’t divorce him if we were to get married? Mind you I can’t help but to think about how during every-time we reconnected he would tell me how he dated a girl and it ended bad. I told him that that makes me just feel like a place holder in his life but at the same time feel crazy because I was definitely entertaining other guys during our “breaks” The other night we talked and I didn’t like his responses to my questions about relationships so I blocked him again. Oh, during that time I also didn’t like that he told me that there would be times that he would be too busy working to keep in contact with me. Or there would simply be days he would want to himself & that he wouldn’t necessarily want to be bothered I told him that I am a very busy person too but talking to him on my downtime made my day better. And I don’t see how it isn’t the same for him. Like why doesn’t talking to me make his day better. & i know it’s not good, but it hurts my feelings when I lurk and see that he’s made post on his social media. I feel like if you have time to post on social media then you have time to talk to me too as the post aren’t technically business related. I have blocked him again and I plan to keep him blocked forever. but now I am in so much pain that it is hard for me to focus on basic tasks… i just don’t get how he would come back into my life without clarity i’m depressed, I feel dumb and stupid. And i have no idea how i will survive going back to work when all I want to do is just stay home and cry all day… i need advice & tips on how to swiftly heal and never make this mistake again
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