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Unsure of what I want in my relationship
Relationship Stress / by plumPine135
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 January 8th, 2022
...See more Hello, I'm 25 and have been In a 5 year relationship. While, I had dated before this, this has been my only girlfriend. I love her very much, but as time ticks on, I can't help but wonder if I want to go down this path without exploring more. We are planning on getting engaged, which excites me but also kind of gives me cold feet. Before I met my girlfriend, I briefly dated another girl for a couple months. I really liked her and she liked me back. She seemed to get nervous as it got closer to us making things official and she called off us dating. I don't know why, but she left a huge impression on me and I think about her from time to time and it trips me out how close we were to being in a relationship. My girlfriend is wonderful, but I sometimes wonder if I missed out on having more relationships. I'm just not sure how I feel. On one hand I would be very upset if we broke up, but another part of me likes the idea of having the freedom to explore again. Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation, or might have some good advice for me?
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Unsure of what I want out of my relationship
Relationship Stress / by plumPine135
Last post
 January 5th, 2022
...See more Hello, I'm 25 and have been In a 5 year relationship. While, I had dated before this, this has been my only girlfriend. I love her very much, but as time ticks on, I can't help but wonder if I want to go down this path without exploring more. We are planning on getting engaged, which excites me but also kind of gives me cold feet. Before I met my girlfriend, I briefly dated another girl for a couple months. I really liked her and she liked me back. She seemed to get nervous as it got closer to us making things official and she called off us dating. I don't know why, but she left a huge impression on me and I think about her from time to time and it trips me out how close we were to being in a relationship. My girlfriend is wonderful, but I sometimes wonder if I missed out on having more relationships. I'm just not sure how I feel. On one hand I would be very upset if we broke up, but another part of me likes the idea of having the freedom to explore again. Is there anyone who has been in a similar situation, or might have some good advice for me?
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