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plumSky8717
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Relationship Stress / by plumSky8717
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 December 31st, 2025
...See more Ive been with my boyfriend for three years now. We share a two year old child together and things are very iffy. Its to the point now where we hardly even speak to each other. Like we are roommates who share a child together. We have never been true friends. From the beginning its always been a really strong sexual connection between us but it stops there. Within the past year in our relationship I caught him communicating with other women multiple times which he always said was out of boredom but now its something different. I can see that he has changed his ways as well as just becoming the man Ive always asked for. I have tried talking to him about how I feel many times that its tiring because he always just says its me A couple months ago I ran into an old friend (whos a man) and we have been hitting it off. A few days ago I told him I couldnt talk to him anymore because I was still in a relationship but I still wonder. I have tried to be happy with my boyfriend but it isnt working. I feel like maybe we have had so many issues in the past and now its too late. I think about leaving him all the time but feel like Im doing a disservice to him as well as our child. I have already crossed the line by communicating with another man. Should I tell my boyfriend what is going on and we go separate ways or try and work it out? Im so confused at this point.
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