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Ex partner issues
Men's Issues / by politePrune6134
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July 5th, 2025
...See more Morning all Searching online and found this forum so figured I'd ask on here too see if anyone else has experienced the same So bit about me 40 year old male, 1 daughter 3 years old with ex partner. So me and my ex split up over a year ago as she felt I couldn't give her enough time. We both live inside London uk. I'm in the private renting sector at a cost of £1200 a month while shes on the dole but has her own council flat. She lives with her brother in his council house but he is pretty disabled. She also has another child from another guy. I have too work 6 days a week too just about get by as im the wrong side of £25k in debt. For a while we was getting along reasonably well. When I went too see my daughter I'd occasionally take her and her boy out as  hes got autism, adhd so instead of sitting in front of the tv it got them out the house. I see them on average 2-3 times a week. I've decided that im going too move house as work is available for me but its 120 miles away so thats all going ahead at present. My ex see a photo of me and the new girlfriend and shes blown her absolute lid at me. She's going off on whattsapp status saying Can't see your daughter but can drive 300 mile to see your new girlfriend I'm a useless dad Just basically making out im a waste of space human.  She didn't even get my daughter too get me a card for father's day recently despite me sending her £400 a month. She's also hacked off with me coz I didn't get my little one any nappies one day bearing in mind im driving 240 mile a day (5-6hours) to get too and from work for a month  Has anyone else had any similar experiences with their ex partner making them feel pretty worthless over something so small and because im trying too move on in life.  Cheers all
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