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ppollock
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Trust/Acceptance
Relationship Stress / by ppollock
Last post
 October 25th, 2021
...See more I have no reason to doubt, yet I seem to not fully believe her and always look to poke holes in something. Why can’t I just trust? Also, how can I stop caring about anything that happened in the past/picturing these things with her and driving myself nuts?
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Why Can’t I Trust Her?
Relationship Stress / by ppollock
Last post
 October 12th, 2021
...See more Was seeing a girl for a couple months. It was a weird time in my life and I lost interest and kinda ended it. Fast forward 6 months and we’re back. I’m hung up on anything she might’ve done in our time apart. I know that’s not fair but it’s how I am. Now she says she told me everything and she missed me the whole time and couldn’t stop comparing people to me. She’s told me about a couple make outs after dates. She told me she didn’t sleep with anyone though. I asked her why not lie since she knows another answer would upset me and she said she wouldn’t want to start a relationship on the basis of a lie. I haven’t caught her lying or anything so I shouldn’t doubt. But I know one of the dates mentioned the word “hookup”. Now that could just be a make out like she already told me about. She has said multiple times she didn’t sleep with anyone. Again, no reason to actually doubt her. She’s let me sit down twice and ask questions and answered everything. But I can’t stop thinking about it now and wondering. And I know I need to ask her again but I don’t want to push her away. And then the problem is if that answer does change, it means she lied and idk what I can trust at all. And then I’m thinking about a ton of other stuff out of that and spiraling.
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