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practicalJet8387
1,745 M Hopeful Heart
PathStep 3 Compassion hearts41 Forum posts14 Forum upvotes3 Current upvotes3 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2024 Member sinceApril 18, 2021
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Ghost
Relationship Stress / by practicalJet8387
Last post
 November 17th, 2022
...See more I have a friendship group mixed with guys and girls and I was getting closer to one of the guys simply because he would always check up on me and we would talk for hours about everything and he was caring towards me. All of a sudden this person has switched and acts like I don't exist within the friendship group and doesn't invite me to socials anymore but includes the others. He would do everything to avoid me and I don't know why. I haven't said anything or done anything to him to act like this
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Lost!
Relationship Stress / by practicalJet8387
Last post
 March 17th, 2022
...See more My partner has been diagnosed with an illness and ever since the relationship has gotten worse. Which is understandable. However, I'm.really struggling now because when I'm upset over am argument we have and it's him not listening to me he brushes my emotions to the side and tells me he has it worse than I do. if we argue snd I am upset and don’t speak to him he will call and say remember im not well, then he will start breatheing heavy on the phone and I panic thinking something is happening regards to his health. Everytime I say let’s call the doctors he says no. it’s like I can’t express my feelings because he don’t listen, it leads to an arguement and I’m the bad person for stressing him out snd making him worse. I don’t know what to do ? It’s like I can never say anything in regards to how I feel
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Break up!
Relationship Stress / by practicalJet8387
Last post
 January 13th, 2022
...See more I've literally gave this person I loved everything and accommodated to his life and he didn't make as much effort with me because he would say his health issues, which is fair but I've watched him spend time and make the upmost effort for his friend.
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Authorative!
Relationship Stress / by practicalJet8387
Last post
 August 7th, 2021
...See more My boyfriend is authorative and he doesn’t realise how belittling he is when he is trying to help and call me out on my flaws. I don’t mind him correcting me but I don’t think it has a positive effect by the way he talks to me. I’m trying to tell him it’s the way he speaks but he doesn’t understand and he downs that believe it and tells me I’m over sensitive which to me is invalidating my feelings. I’ve brought this to his awareness after an argument and he just thinks I’m bringing this up because i hate being wrong so it’s a tit for tat thing but I’m just expressing how I have felt for a very long time. Am i wrong???
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I’m in two minds
Relationship Stress / by practicalJet8387
Last post
 August 7th, 2021
...See more I’m not sure whether to break up with my partner, I feel as if my feelings are invalid and he points out that if I stop acting childish in arguments and let him speak he wouldn’t lose it and shout at me. Basically saying it’s my fault I feel these feelings and that I need to change. I’ve been constantly told that he can not deal with me as I’m hyper sensitive abs emotional and because of my unhealthy past in other relationships I’m being toxic in this one. All I wanted was to express my feelings but at the end of it I’m always playing victim and I never acknowledge my wrongs and all my issues I have explained to him is because of me. I’ve also been told that I’m ruining his life and all I do is care for him and I feel like I’ve been so good to him. I feel like I lost myself and his response is you never knew yourself to begin with and he has helped me in life which is true. But I feel empty and I don’t know why.
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