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...See more Hi, I’ve been dating my boyfriend for around 2 years now. We’ve had very many challenges in our relationship but somehow always managed to stay together. he’s blamed me for cheating on him, when I really just texted some of my best friends who just happened to be guys and had a rush in me while we were in high school. (That was almost 8 years ago) because of this we faced many challenges that led to him going out every weekend and getting so messed up he could t walk and would go talk and dance with other girls. While I stayed home crying and labeled a *** for texting my friends. we fixed that and move to today, he’s threatens to break up with me so much and I’m so scared. I paid for his college tuition, his equipment for his nighttime job, he uses my car I pay for his meals etc. I thought I was doing all this to keep him. One night I went to one of his gigs and these girls who I felt uncomfortable with bought him drinks and started dancing on him, since he was the dj he don’t do much so I intervened already being a few drinks in, he got so mad he told me to leave since I was an embarrassment he go heated me for a day after that. Then told me I could t hang out with him cuz I had to learn my lesson. He says he’s getting tired of my attitude but I just want to feel safe in my relationship. Yesterday was his last straw since my bank account is in 0s now because I give it all to him I had some money saved in a bag that I didn’t want anyone to know about “out of sight out of mind” then he went through it thinking I was hiding some guys thing but then I told him it was because I didn’t want him or anyone to know I was saving money. He got so upset he left and said he needed time. today he tells me he’s leaving because this is what I wanted and that he warned me. He said he needed time but that he would be back because all I am doing is bringing him down. I don’t understand what I’m doing, I pay for everything, I help him with school, I lend him my car, I give him love. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Is there anything I should have done? Was me hiding that money wrong? He won’t call or text and he always does I’m a friend he’s genuinely leaving this time

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