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proactiveSpring2151
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Recently found out boyfriend was abused....
Relationship Stress / by proactiveSpring2151
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 December 10th, 2019
...See more we recently had our baby boy. He is 2 months old and our first child. He is completely wonderful with him, as he is as a person! Well I noticed he snooped in my phone, no big deal, so I looked at his as well. **I do not want to offend anyone whatsoever just typing it how I found it** Only to find out he watches porn just about everyday.. and at that it is "shemale", transgender. And in the most recent search it said gay father and son.. even though it wasnt watched but it was searched and paged through.. Now idk how long this has been going on; I seen before that he watched porn just about every day including the "shemale" but I never seen the gay. So this was really alarming to me. He couldnt explain this to me, I didnt talk to him for two days. He told me he wanted to make things right so we sat and tried to talk but he didnt really say much except he didnt know. He told me he isnt gay and isnr turned on by that and doesnt like kids that he isnt a weirdo. So I asked him if something had happened to him before and he said no very sternly and quick. Had to tend to baby after this. After about an hour or so we sat down again and Instead of being mad I tried to talk and explain how I felt. I asked him again if something had happened to him and he began to cry and hugged me real right and said he would never do that to his son, he'd never hurt him or "mess him up" like that. It was his father that did something to him-I didnt ask many questions But should I be worried for my son????
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