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purplethunder37
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Going through some life changes and fraying at the edges. Trying to hold myself together and support others going through the same thing. 

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Dealing with relationship issues
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 December 20th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone, I hope this is the right place for support. I’m open to both offering and receiving it. My marriage is almost perfect. My husband loves me and treats me wonderfully in every way… except one. I don’t think he was ever physically attracted to me, but his emotional and mental attraction to me made him overlook that and marry me anyway. But it’s causing issues now. He doesn’t think it’s a big deal or unsolvable, but I do. The rest of the relationship is great, but I feel so worthless and unwanted because of that one thing that’s missing. Logically, I know I’m a reasonably attractive person. I have a good figure and I could find someone who’d want me. But the one person I want doesn’t seem to want me the same way. I hope we can solve this like he believes we can. He doesn’t know I’ve given him an ultimatum in my head and if I don’t see any progress by that time, I will call it quits. We’ve barely been married a year. I feel like a failure.
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